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Tuesday, January 25, 2011

@ Sistergirl

Thank you so much for your comment yesterday; I truly appreciated your feedback and it was very helpful.

So Alexandro’s aunt called me yesterday to see if they could keep Alex for a few extra hours to go out to dinner, of course I said yes. Alexandro goes to his grandparents (father’s family) every morning before school and after school until I get out of work. He has several father figures there, he has 2 uncles and 2 aunts on his father’s side; he also has a lot of cousins to play with, so when he is there, he is never bored or alone.

I never talk about his father in a negative way; that is not an issue. I try to make his memory a sweet one and not cause more confusion in his mind. I would love to take him to his tombstone, but we did the memorial and burial in Mexico. He did get to see and spend time with him 1 month before he passed away, and we did go to the memorial and burial.

According to Alexandro he does like his therapist, so I don’t know what happened there; I have no idea why he decided to refuse in seeing her.

Yesterday I started a new approach, when his aunt brought him home; I stood by the door to talk to him. I told him babe I thought you and I where supposed to be like one. You and I have told each other everything with no lies; do you not trust in me anymore because it really hurts mommy’s feelings when you lie. I think this approach worked because I saw a reaction on his face and he said no mommy I do trust you. I said in a soft voice okay so if there is trust why do you think you need to lie to me about little things such as saying you brushed your teeth, did your homework, or shampooed your hair when indeed you haven’t done so? His response was I’m sorry I will try to be honest! That was a good response.

Right after talking to him he did his reading, read his bible, did his homework, took a shower and shampooed his hair, and brushed his teeth. I hope things stay like last night. We’ll see how it goes today. I have faith!

Ahhhhh today I have a dentist appointment for a cleaning!!! What a drag LOL... Write to you all later! Have a good afternoon and thanks for your comments.

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Monday, January 24, 2011

Stressed Mother...

I am desperate for guidance; my son is still having issues and I feel I don’t know how to control it; I know he is hurting but I don’t know how to ease his pain because I too know how he feels, but it is causing me grief and stress.

Alex is now lying about everything. Little things like if he brushed his teeth, shampooed his hair, or did his homework; he is asked if he did them, and he says replies “yes mommy I finished everything” then I go see if the bottles have been moved and they are in the same spot; I check the backpack and journal is not done. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to punish him for lying because I read that punishing for lying will just cause more lying out of fear. So I am stuck! I guess it is back to trying to get a hold of the therapist again.

He was being seen by three counselors, two at school, and one private. I called one of the school therapists today and she informed me he refused to see her the last time she went to pick him up from class. I don’t know what to do; I don’t even know who my little boy is anymore. Before his father died he was such a normal and no problem kid. I’m stressed and I don’t know what to do.

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Collision this morning ahhhh....

What to think about life…

Is it just me or is there someone like me that feels some days we are just floating in the air with no purpose? I was sent to Endocrinology and Oncology again because my blood levels do not want to normalize themselves.

Here we go again worrying about health issues; ahhh and on top of that I got rear ended this morning and now I am having back pain; so I am going to urgent care after I get off of work; it sucks!!!! When it comes to insurance I am so stupid she rear ended me and I gave her a check of $100 when the drivers father asked me to and they didn’t want to call 911 big mistake on my part or I am totally gullible ahhhh I am so bugged!!! I put a stop request on the check even though I had to pay $29 paying $29 is better than $100 on something I had no control over.

Did I mention I am totally bugged and there is still 15 minutes on the clock in order to be able to clock out and I still need to go to urgent care right after!!! Good thing today is not Thursday or I would be missing Grey’s Anatomy!!!

Psalm 27:1

"The Lord is my light and my salvation – whom shall I fear?The Lord is the stronghold of my life – of whom shall I be afraid?"Psalm 27:1

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